
No Room for Excuses.



Love, Heather
xox

One of the things I love most about my job is helping to encourage other authors. I’ve been writing for a living for 20 years now (wow!) and I’ve learned a few things along the way. I love passing them on to younger writers, in hopes that I motivate them the way I’ve been motivated by other writers in the past.
I clearly remember being a first-time newspaper reporter, guzzling ounces of coffee before 9 a.m.; so nervous about how to put a story together. Could I get it done in time? Then, when I began my first column and really put myself, my thoughts and opinions out there – – what if people laughed?
What got me through was the people who had been there before me. The editors, senior writers, and eventually, when I began writing books, other, more experienced authors and even a couple screenwriters. They gave me honest advice and cut the BS out on a lot of stuff I’d been fed BS on before. It helped me realize that I was going to make it in this business of writing, editing, and losing your mind marketing, because they’d made it, and still had the energy to tell stories and give me advice.
So, here I am now, offering some writing advice, and reminding you to take everything you read about the process with a grain of salt. Just like everybody’s story is going to be styled differently, so is the story of how you get from a blank page to a 70,000 word novel. It’s personal.
I’ve been working on this new novel, The Match, this past month, but not getting too far. Every morning, I’d tell myself the well-known mantra, “write every day,” and then I’d sit down at the computer, and I’d write total crap. Every day. For a whole week.
I mean, the stuff was nonsense like “I should put a paragraph about skinny jeans in here,” but then I’d be interrupted by my daughter, who was home with strep throat, asking for juice, and I’d forget all about skinny jeans.
Sometimes, life gets in the way of your writing, and if you aren’t working to an absolute deadline, it just doesn’t feel like it’s the right time to push yourself on it.Ā There were four “work to rule” strike days this month, and a Professional Day (essentially, another day off for my kid). I try not to work as many hours when she’s home off school, because these are precious days. I know she’ll soon have a boyfriend and want very little to do with me.
Strep throat, work to rule, I got sick, the cat got sick, we started painting the house, I had a couple of book signing events to attend and hours of marketing work to do for my novels, and then Strangely, Incredibly Good hit #1 in Time Travel Romance on Kindle, and suddenly, it was all about the OTHER books; no time to start a new one!
Besides, I was writing crap.
I’m still writing really rotten stuff, in my opinion, but it’s also starting to come together. I write something about the plot or a character every day, and then I go back to my marketing work, and these days, getting ready for Christmas.
I know The Match will come together when it’s good and ready. I’m also taking better care of myself so that when it comes in a steady stream as it often does, I’m rested and prepared to put in the hours!
Don’t worry if you don’t write beautiful prose every day. Do what you can, and don’t beat yourself up over that. If you’re truly a writer, the story won’t let you give up on it.
Heather
Talk about premature publication. That previous post was published accidentally, when my train lurched forward and my wrist hit a button. Seconds later WordPress informed me, “Congrats! You’ve published a post!” and I had to rush around the Net doing damage control on my post already posted to Twitter, Facebook, Tumblr…
It proves my point a little though, doesn’t it? So I decided to keep the original post, which was meant to be longer, as is.
I was trying to talk about how rarely we allow ourselves time to do absolutely nothing; time that is ours and ours alone, where we aren’t obligated to be anywhere, doing anything.
I watched my daughter and her friend having a snowball fight in our yard yesterday, and it hit me: children have that freedom. (Later, the snowballs hit me, because I went outside and joined in!) Okay, children don’t always have that freedom, because sometimes they’re loaded down with homework, and activities, but in my home, our daughter rarely has to be anywhere except the dinner table when we call her.
I’ve been given that rare kind of day today: I’m headed to Kingston to speak at the Ban Righ Centre – but I’m speaking tomorrow – and on Saturday, I’m speaking at the Queen’s Media and Journalism Conference (I’m also doing a book signing in Kingston and one at Chapters Kanata – please check out my Upcoming Events listed here!) Ā The train just had a delay, and we sat on the tracks for about 10 minutes, and that’s when I decided to write a blog post. That delay was a gift. Besides, I had nowhere to be anyway.
When the train stopped and I stared out at the vast field of snow out my window, it hit me that I’m at my happiest when I have nowhere I have to be. Responsibilities really suck most of the time, don’t they? They’re a fact of life, however, it doesn’t mean we can’t set aside some time every few days where we don’t have to be anywhere, or do anything.
Stop yourself in your tracks, and just be. Give yourself a childlike day again. Just don’t forget to pay your Hydro bill…
Heather š 
P.S. If you are interested in seeing the visuals from my presentation “Career Magic,” below is the handout with the QR codes! You can use your phone or iPad QR scanner on the QR codes to access my presentations at Prezi.com. Tomorrow and Saturday, I’m hoping some people will Tweet out some of what I say (@hgracestewart) , but the visuals are there, and my presentation So You Want to Be An Author has also been made public. Enjoy!

Thanks to my technical genius guy Bill Stewart for the great help creating the QR codes. š